Episodes
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Ep. 001
Log Kya Kahenge — The Original Surveillance System
Before social media, before algorithms, there was Log Kya Kahenge. What will people say? For South Asian women, this question wasn't just background noise. It was the operating system. It shaped what you wore, who you married, how loud you laughed, and whether you ever dared to want something for yourself. In this episode, Zainab and Saema get into where it comes from, what it actually costs us, and how you begin to live for yourself when you've spent a lifetime living for the audience. -

Ep. 002
What Is “Middle Age” — And Who Defined It?
Who came up with that word — and why does it sound like something to survive rather than something to step into? In this episode, Zainab and Saema dig into what "middle age" actually means, who defined it, and why those definitions were never really made with women like us in mind. They discuss ways we can all define it for ourselves. -

Ep. 003
Zainab’s Story: She'd Been Deaf Her Whole Life. Finding Out Set Her Free.
In South Asian families, disability is often the thing no one names. Zainab lived that reality — moving through her early years deaf, undiagnosed, and surrounded by a culture that mistook her silence for something else entirely. This is the story of what it costs to go unseen, and what it means to finally find yourself on your own terms.
Meet
the Hosts
Zainab Wadood and Saema Tahir are Pakistani-raised women navigating midlife the way no one taught them — out loud and honestly.
Raised with the weight of Log Kya Kahenge — the South Asian need to manage what everyone else thinks — they spent decades being good daughters, good wives, good mothers. Now they're asking what do we actually want?
Auntie Please is their answer. Each episode they sit down with therapists and expert — unlearning the old script and figuring out how to show up as their fullest selves.
If you're a South Asian woman in midlife wondering if it's too late to start over — it's not. Join the conversation now.

